hmmm??*wondering*

Imagine*****

You are happily married with someone you love but then tragedy strikes and your lovely spouse met an accident.He or she got paralysed because of that accident.Later,your spouse learnt to be a very low self-esteem person regarding to the current condition .It is useless to live and do any work.He turns down everything that is making him go forward.He or she says life is a nightmare now.You give all the positive support but everything is turned down.

The question to this..

Will you get fed up?
Can you live with a person who thinks he or she is a total failure and cannot help the family anymore?
Can you stand the whine?
Will you leave your spouse for another man or woman?
Can the term we call 'love' safe the marriage?
Will the marriage last?
Will you stay?
Will you never give up on your spouse?

Questions that came to me and even more as i watched a show on the tv just a while ago.Can i stand by my husband if i'm married to a paralysed man and thinks he has failed in life and his family because he is useless?

haha..i'm thinking too much now...i know but i was just wondering...It is hard to tell.I cannot say that i will stay because if i say that it is as tho' i'm asking for trouble.I will nvr know if i can go thru this type of problem ...if it ever occur in my life...hahah..because in that show the wife left the husband for another man.The woman can't stand how her husband react after the accident.So,'love' failed in that situation.That is when it made me think....Not everything can be cured with love.


OR can it?hmmm....


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Wana know something?I'm feeling abit flowery now.Just called D just now.Going to Ktn tmrw with him if jadi la..heheh!

And after the call..i feel so flowery like there's something inside of me shaking.hahahha...WTH!!??hahhahaha...i'm trying to shake it off but it's still in me...argh!!i need to study now...flowery can u go away 4 awhile..and come another time?pls?hahahha.....