Side cloth

'Side cloth' a direct translation from 'tepi kain' which in Malay a saying goes as ' JANGAN JAGA TEPI KAIN ORANG'. In the context of understanding; we must not be nosy in other peoples' matters, be it their problems or anything good because it does not concern us.

I hate people who wants to know what is going on in my life when I don't bother to tell. I may be stressful with what I'm in now but when you're nosy and only making things worse, certainly is not an option for me to choose and tell what the hell is going on in my ...hmm..let's say family for instance.

Let me put in an example to make this post spiced up,okay? If you're a person who has a family that consists members from all sorts of bad backgrounds and you still want to put your nose and sniff in other people's s**t then you're really one damaged person. Why do I say so? It is because what ever we do, say or act upon; we  have to reflect on ourselves first. Point your flaws out first before you start judging other people's family members. You don't even know the real story of what happened to the family you nosed in but instead you act as if you know everything and say unthinkable words to that person's family member. How dumb is that? Your family's flaws are not even close to the word GOOD but you're trying to give out an advise?

I respect any advise and I totally am open to any views from other people but when you don't even know the real s**t and you start to talk as if you are 'knowledgeable' of what went wrong just by listening to ONE side of the story, that's when my fury comes in. PLEASE MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS! You don't know a damn thing of what REALLY went wrong.

Even though people ask me of what had happened I won't talk. You want to know why? It's because I don't bother to satisfy or feed other people's curiosity anymore. Only GOD, my family and I know the real deal that my family are facing. Who is right who is wrong? Easy. Both sides are wrong, no one is right. Only the people who judge it are the ones making it worse because they don't know the REAL STORY!

So, (as politely that i can say this) please stay out of my personal life and don't disturb my family issues. I appreciate it very much. TQ!